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Relational trauma is a term used to describe the damage caused by toxic relationships. It can occur when someone you care about and trust turns on you or a loved one. This can be especially painful when the relationship turns toxic because of repeated abuse and neglect, gaslighting, or love bombing. It can be difficult for the victim to get away from the toxic individual for various reasons, such as financial dependence, fear of retaliation, or a lack of support.

Relational trauma can have a profound impact on a person's mental health and well-being. Those who are more susceptible to relational trauma often have a history of childhood trauma or neglect. They may struggle with issues such as low self-esteem, anxiety, and depression. Additionally, they may tend to blame themselves for the toxic relationship, which can further exacerbate their trauma. What all victims had in common was two super traitis of agreeableness and constientiousness. Some people use the term Empath to describe these individuals.

It is essential to seek help if you or someone you know is experiencing relational trauma. Therapy can be a powerful tool for healing from this type of trauma. It can help individuals learn how to set healthy boundaries, build self-esteem, and develop coping skills to manage the aftermath of a toxic relationship. Remember that healing takes time and patience, but it is possible to move forward and thrive with the proper support.

Supporting A Loved One

Supporting someone going through narcissistic abuse can be a challenging but crucial role to play in helping them navigate this difficult situation. One of the most important ways to support a loved one in this situation is to listen to them without judgment. Allow them to share their experiences, feelings, and fears without trying to minimize or dismiss their emotions. Validation and empathy are powerful tools in helping someone feel heard and understood.

Another critical way to support someone experiencing narcissistic abuse is to help them establish boundaries. Narcissists often manipulate and violate boundaries, so assisting your loved one in setting and enforcing healthy boundaries can be empowering for them. Encourage them to prioritize self-care and make decisions that prioritize their well-being, even if it means creating distance from the abuser.

Additionally, offering practical support, such as helping them find resources, therapy, or support groups, can be invaluable. Remind them that they are not alone and that help is available. Please encourage them to seek professional help and remind them that their safety and well-being are the top priorities. By being a supportive and understanding presence, you can help your loved one navigate the complexities of narcissistic abuse and begin their journey toward healing and recovery.

I can not stress enough that you do not have to fix the problem. Just being present, supportive, and kind is all that is needed. A professional who specializes in relational trauma can help your loved one so you can be a friend. Remember, the narcissist is trying to isolate and push everyone away from the victim. Keep personal boundaries so you can be there for your loved one. Offer to go to therapy with your loved one to create a supportive and protective plan for you and them. At some point you may have to let them suffer if they are unwilling to take your helpful advice. A healthy boundary could be that you will be there to help your friend heal, not continue to perpetuate the abuse by entertaining the chaos and drama that drives the abuse.

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